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The next morning he ran to his spot, sat down on the big flat rock, and asked about sex. The wind blew and carried a gentle voice...but it was a woman's soft voice that answered:
Do not be afraid. I will tell you all about sex and love. So sit peacefully, my child, and hear my many stories.
Three basic views of sex and love exist: 1. The religious-procreative view. 2. The recreational-fun-noncommitted "Playboy" view. 3. The Neotech view.
The guilt generated by the religious view of sex makes romantic love impossible. An even more devastating loss evolves from performance anxieties caused by the "Playboy" view coupled with the demands to be a sexy person by someone else's standards.
The diminished self-esteem caused by the fun-only "Playboy" view creates anxiety and boredom to steadily diminish sexual pleasures and capacities. That process, if allowed to continue, ends in impotence or frigidity. Much of the impotence in men today is linked to self-esteem problems. Many insecure men who depend on a macho act for pseudo self-esteem collapse into impotence when confronted with healthy, confident, sexually liberated women who see through their act as laughable, immature, childish.
Only the third view, the Neotech view, equates with human nature.
Sensuous relates to the five physical senses -- touch, sight, hearing, smell, and taste. Sensuous is associated with the pleasurable gratification of one or more of those physical senses. Neotech expands the meaning of sensuous to capture the essence of pleasure by including and integrating the most potent dimension: the pleasurable gratification of the human mind. That gratification includes the harmonious agreement of your love life with your psychological well-being. ...The word for that expanded meaning of sensuous is psychuous.
Your conscious mind is the ultimate organ for experiencing pleasures, including sexual pleasures. Your mind integrates all pleasures with all that you are, do, and think. Your mind is the organism that offers unlimited pleasure and happiness. Add the exciting pleasure of your body, and you discover a spectacular experience called Psychuous Sex.
In Neotech, the meaning of sex includes intercourse as a series of highlights along a vast range of sexually rooted experiences and emotions. Indeed, the meaning of sex in Neotech encompasses all sexual influences -- often hidden but powerful -- that weave through your life.
Psychuous sex is an intense mind-body experience. Yet, psychuous sex does not always produce intense physical reactions. That would be too exhausting, too demanding, and eventually boring. Psychuous-sex intensity is measured by emotional depth and expression...not by overt physical reactions.
Sensuous behavior can increase psychuous pleasures. But since psychuous pleasures involve the whole person in both sexual and nonsexual experiences, those pleasures are not dependent on sensuous behavior. You can and should, however, assertively increase your sexual attractiveness. But do not reduce your natural sex appeal by faking sensuousness.
Especially important: dump ideas of sacrifice and altruism. That dumping of irrationality allows you to guiltlessly experience psychuous pleasures. Indeed, your capacity for psychuous sex, the most intense human pleasure, always arises from the same base -- from dealing honestly with reality. ...Now, let us look more closely at how to launch the ultimate mind-body experience.
My father stood up as if to speak. But he just stood there like a shy boy, dwarfed by the mountain and embarrassed to speak. The gentle female voice continued.
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