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The often misunderstood division-of-labor concept is central to all beneficial relationships, ranging from individual man-woman romantic relationships to mutually beneficial employer-employee relationships involving thousands of people. Next to their attacks on individual rights through the use of government force, the most harmful neocheating manipulations by feminist leaders are their attacks on the voluntary division-of-labor concept. Some feminists advocate eliminating the division-of-labor dynamic from man-woman relationships. They demand, for example, that all jobs, chores, and activities be shared equally.
Most other people desire and happily use the division of labor to their mutual advantages. Indeed, the most fair, efficient way to exchange values for desired values is through division of labor. Even the traditional trade in which the man earns money while the woman makes an efficient home and living atmosphere is a valid, proper trade that can greatly benefit each, if each mutually agrees to and desires such a trade.
For what reason would a feminist or anyone else attack two people who agree to what they want to do with their own personal selves and lives? One reason is that such feminists are neocheaters using the tool of guilt to undermine values in order to usurp power and values earned by others. But, romantic-love partners responding to feminist demands for equality of actions -- rather than for each partner offering the other his or her separately developed values -- eventually eliminate happiness from their relationships. For equality of actions pushes love partners toward inefficient, restricted petty relationships in which mutual growth fades and love dies. ...In other words, do not get too tied into a woman locked into feminist ideas, or your love will suffer.
Women functioning in any of the following three categories can achieve psychuous pleasures, romantic love, and abiding happiness:
Today, with the many domestic labor-saving conveniences, a housewife "career" is often too unchallenging to provide the self-esteem, independence, and growth needed to experience the full range of happiness available from life. But, exceptions exist in which being a housewife is a challenging management profession delivering full self-esteem, happiness, and romantic love. Examples today include the partner-wives of super-productive entrepreneurs, businessmen, farmers, scientists, and other hard-driving producers. Another example includes mothers who take over the responsibility of properly educating their children in light of today's incompetent educational systems.
"What are your integrations on having children?" my father asked.
A potential area for either undermining or boosting happiness is having children. Which direction often depends on whether or not the parents have achieved financial independence. Parents who lose growth and happiness can damage the well-being of their innocent child or children. On the other hand, parents who gain growth and happiness can sustain the great gift of happiness in their children's lives.
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