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"In the past, when I got close to a woman, I did try communicating well. What about that?" my father asked.
Crucial in your romantic-love relationship is open communication, especially during negative emotional experiences. During stressful or negative experiences, deliberate reason-based -- rather than automatic emotion-based -- conclusions are needed to make fair, honest judgments. The ability to communicate honestly without mysticism during emotional stress is the hallmark of successful love partners.
The first step to reason-based communication between you and your woman is to identify and separate the emotional aspects of a problem. For, knowing the difference between reason-based conclusions and emotion-based conclusions is the most important step in developing communication skills during negative situations.
Your ability to generate reason-based conclusions out of negative situations has powerfully beneficial effects on your well-being, self-esteem, and happiness. Reasoned conclusions in emotional situations, for example, can prevent irrational actions that damage or destroy business, family, and romantic-love situations. The habitual use of reason-based conclusions in emotional situations leads to powerfully effective communication in all situations, especially business and romantic-love situations.
Feeling that it was getting late, my father asked the mountain if there was anything more for today. The gentle voice responded:
I have one more important tip to give you today, one more important Neotech advice: Psychuous pleasures and abiding happiness depend on psychological health which, in turn, depends on productive work. Without productive work or preparations for such, psychological health is impossible. Moreover, psychuous pleasures and happiness act as the emotional incentives to constantly increase your value and productivity.
By the way, you like most productive individuals are of much greater value than your mystically diminished self-image lets you realize. For, the image of highly productive individuals has been constantly denigrated by dishonest media journalists, authors, university professors, educators, theologians, politicians, and social "intellectuals". The productive middle class is projected in the ugly, inverted, false images of the Babbitts and Willie Lomans. The ultimate unjust irony lies with the destructive government bureaucrats and "professionals": They who never produce values, only consume or destroy them, coined and contemptuously use the pejorative "working stiffs" in describing the self-sufficient, working middle class. Those "working stiffs" are the honest people who daily produce a flood of values for others, including those government value destroyers. Indeed, those value destroyers could not survive without those "working stiffs". But those "working stiffs" would thrive without those bureaucrats and professional value destroyers.
You, the value producer, can feel your full worth only after discarding the years of unearned guilt foisted on you by the mystics, politicians, social "intellectuals", media commentators, and other neocheating altruists and egalitarians. Indeed, you can and should experience the pleasure of feeling your full worth all the time. And now with Neotech, you can forever free yourself of egalitarian altruism and its envious neocheaters to always feel your deserved worth and happiness.
Productivity is the building block for prosperity, love, and happiness. Now, I want you to go home and write down tonight the most common character and behavior traits associated with productive men and women. Reflect on what I have bestowed upon you, and then make your list.
That night, my father reflected for about two-and-a-half hours, reviewing in his mind Zon's voice of fully integrated honesty. Then, my father put to paper his list as Zon had asked, as follows:
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