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As with happiness, self-awareness cannot be given from one person to another. But by reflecting personal values, you can enhance another person's self-awareness in a similar way that you can enhance another person's happiness.
"Such as you have done to me more than once. Again, thank you Zon. Since you spoke to me, I have become much more aware of myself and my strengths and qualities," my father said. "Also, my woman is amazing. I'm able to express myself privately to her, and she helps me understand what I am going through with both the elation in my life, which is you Zon, and with the tribulation in my life, which is my ongoing battle with the government because of the IRS."
A strong emotion felt by highly productive men is the desire for a peaceful core to counterbalance their aggressively assertive lives. That desire usually relates to a woman with whom such a man is free to retreat from his battlefield actions to experience peaceful love, tenderness, serenity. For only during that precious time is he free to fully expose and share his soul exclusively with another human being -- his woman. During those moments, that woman becomes to him the supreme value in all the universe. ...Now, my friend, you are discovering the immeasurably greater value of a psychous relationship over a casual-sex relationship.
Ironically, the strongest, most productive, independent men have the greatest need and capacity to receive a woman's love, support, and tenderness. Tragically, however, many such men never recognize or admit, even to themselves, that supremely important emotional need and pleasure. Similarly, strong men often never admit to other emotional needs such as being free to cry when suffering great sadness or pain. ...A man crying has been erroneously viewed as a weakness or unmanly.
Many women are unaware of the need in productive men for a peaceful, private world containing a one-woman love. But women who understand that need hold a key for delivering powerful values and happiness to their men and to themselves. Understanding and filling the need for a peaceful, reflective core in aggressively productive men is among the most powerful of all binding ingredients in romantic-love relationships.
Now, let me encourage your very productive, growth path this past year. As you are discovering first hand, from the production of competitive values all other values grow, including prosperity, self-esteem, psychological well-being, romantic love, and abiding happiness. Furthermore, competitive, tangible, and material values are important building blocks and binding ingredients of conscious relationships, especially business, friendship, and romantic-love relationships. All professional mystics and neocheaters desperately try to deny the cardinal role of producing competitive values in living happily and in gaining romantic love. But only through the exchange of such values can personal relationships become fully integrated: From an exchange of tangible and material values, a far greater stability, intensity of love, and abiding happiness can develop than is possible from a relationship consisting only of abstract values.
Tangible values in a romantic-love relationship directly affect sexuality. For, exchanges of tangible values markedly increase sexual intensity and psychuous pleasure.
My father stopped the mountain and said, "I'm falling in love, and as I've said, I really want to do everything right this time. Can you elaborate in detail about this value exchange? It seems to be a key to a good relationship and great sex."
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