Neo-Tech Love and Sexual Pleasures

Next Page | Contents | Previous Page

Psychuous pleasure is always linked to an exchange of rational values between two partners. While the actual activity of serious sex can and often does have interludes of lightness and fun, the meaning behind every act is serious and important. Sex on a nonserious, unimportant or casual basis done for "fun only" is a diminishing experience that erodes self-esteem. Romantic love and psychuous pleasures add so much to human happiness that to settle for something as unchallenging and limited as casual, fun-only sex is to treat one's self poorly. (See Table 4).

In a serious relationship, psychuous pleasures are linked to a reflection of each partner's personal values and worth. Unlike a casual relationship, a serious relationship has no bounds or limits to the personal values that can be received and delivered. The value of a serious romantic relationship can grow so great that a person would give, if necessary, all of one's possessions, even one's own life, to protect his or her love partner.

Casual affairs based on fun-only sex are at best limited to fun. Satisfaction or pleasures can be no deeper than the foundation on which the act is based. Fun-only affairs are too shallow and limited to deliver deep or growing pleasures. Continuous casual or fun-only sex can undermine a persons self-esteem and lead to impotence, frigidity, and mounting anxiety. One-night stands or weekend affairs are generally negative and damaging to a person's self-esteem.

A weekend affair, however, could be based on genuine values, mutual respect, and affection. Such affairs can be more healthy and life-enhancing than life-long marriages that are dead, sick or life-diminishing.

The various forms of nonintimate, casual, exploitive, promiscuous, and prostitute sex not only undermine a persons self-esteem, but diminish or eliminate a person's opportunities for developing psychuous pleasures. Any voluntary activity including neurotic activities (e.g., homosexuality, injurious sadomasochism, whoring, orgy sex, bestiality) can deliver various degrees of neurotic gratification to certain individuals, even if the activity is laced with destructive, long-range consequences. (See Table 4).

Partner swapping and multipartner orgies can deliver intense, short-range erotic excitement and temporary therapeutic illusions (i.e., revitalizing interest and relieving boredom). In certain cases, multipartner sex can reduce jealousy and its destructive effects. Multipartner sex can also offer some instructional values (CAUTION: Multipartner sex would require extremely secure philosophical grounding. In most cases, multipartner sex would result in loss of self-esteem and be self-destructive). The meaning, consequences, and value of sexual relationships outside of the primary relationship can vary greatly depending on the motivation and nature of the people involved. Few people can easily or advantageously handle even a healthy, multipartner sexual relationship over an extended period because of the time and effort inherently required to develop a good love relationship. Furthermore, the amount of time that would be required to develop good, multipartner sexual relationships could deprive an individual of the time needed to fully develop other areas of life such as rewarding productive work or a challenging career.

Today, many overt opportunities are open to individuals and couples to make contact in order to engage in almost any form of casual or swinging sex. But almost any form of casual or swinging sex will be psychologically devastating, especially over the long-term.

Honest, extramarital (or extraprimorbital) relationships based on serious values are always possible for one or both partners in a healthy relationship. Simultaneous relationships that are honest and open can, under rare conditions, be beneficial to all parties involved. Commitment of time is a major problem in extraprimorbital sexual relationships. To build an emotionally intimate, sexual relationship that delivers psychuous pleasures normally requires a full commitment of time and effort. Still, simultaneous value-producing affairs should not be terminated because of pressures, demands, or expectations based on standards of others, jealousy, or possessiveness of either partner.

Simultaneous nonsexual relationships based on values can, under most conditions, be beneficial to all parties involved.

With psychuous pleasures, both partners can satisfy themselves as completely and as thoroughly as each desires. Either partner can make love to saturation whenever he or she chooses. Outside of their own mutual desires, no physical limits exist to the amount and length of time a couple can make love. In addition to the great increase in the quality of pleasure available from psychuous sex, a quantum jump in capacity or quantity is also possible (but not necessary).

By defaulting on the basic human responsibility of achieving personal happiness and psychuous pleasures, a person lets his or her future turn downward toward death. Through that default, life and time slip away increasingly unrewarded and unfulfilled. By that default, the exciting potential for life (which everyone senses at least some time during his or her life ...usually in early childhood) will fade away, never to be known or experienced again (unless revived by Neo-Tech). All such defaults are contrary to human nature and unnecessary.

The experiencing of an exciting, value-generating life and the achievement of psychuous pleasures are accomplished through self-responsibility...through a commitment to rational thought, the production of values, and a loyalty to honesty. Psychuous sex allows a person to physically confirm the value of his or her life, especially during difficult or crisis periods. Psychuous sex allows a person to be acutely aware of his or her values, worth, pleasures, and happiness.

Psychuous pleasures go far beyond sexual intercourse. In fact, intercourse itself plays only a small (but important) role in psychuous pleasure, which is integrated with all aspects of human life and sexuality. Value-oriented romantic relationships offer limitless experiences and pleasures ranging from gaiety and spontaneous fun to electrifying thrills and adventure...and finally to psychuous pleasures and long-range happiness.

Productive men and women who revel in psychuous lust end pleasures almost always achieve more satisfying sexual experiences and orgasms than men and women who are inhibited, selfless, or indifferent about sex. A rational lust for Psychuous pleasures requires high self-esteem and self-confidence which allows free, guiltless fulfillment of personal desires.

Psychuous intensity is measured by emotional depth and expression, not by overt physical reactions. The intensity of pleasure offered by psychuous sex does not always mean a constant high-pitched physical intensity. That would be too exhausting, too demanding, and eventually boring with the "need" to fake explosive sexual climaxes. But the habitual faking of sexual pleasure will cause a malcontentment with sex that leads to impotence or frigidity.

Productive people can experience continuously growing psychuous pleasures not only from sex, but also from their work and play.

An explosive orgasm is a visibly powerful physical experience. An intense orgasm, on the other hand, is more of a psychological experience that physically can range from quietly calm to violently explosive. While a significant percentage of people have experienced physically explosive orgasm from time to time, far fewer have experienced psychologically intense orgasms. Intense orgasm in both men and women is a pervasive and enduring experience that absorbs both the mind and body.

The unique and powerful force of intense orgasm comes from a sweeping, sensuous takeover of the mind followed by a guiltless release of psychosexual emotions. That mind takeover is a sensationally unique experience that serves the profoundly beneficial and needed psychological function of letting the individual know at that moment of orgasm what the ultimate pleasure of life is all about...of letting the individual know that this concrete and real experience is the reward for living a productive, rational life. Intense orgasm is also the symbol that a person is living the way he or she, as a biological organism, is designed to live. See Tables 5, and 6.

Lazy, nonproductive individuals might achieve occasional explosive orgasm, but they cannot know or experience the consummate psychological reward of life -intense orgasm. Intense orgasm psychologically requires personal independence and honest self-esteem. Thus, dependent or non-productive people cannot experience this supreme human phenomenon unless they switch from parasitical lives to productive lives.

Unfortunately, even among those productive people who have earned genuine self-esteem, only a small minority are emotionally free enough to experience intense orgasm. The percentage of productive people experiencing intense orgasm and discovering psychuous pleasures could eventually approach 100%. Today, for the first time in history, the workable, practical concepts of the Neo-Tech Discovery and Neo-Tech Pleasures are available to the public. Neo-Tech can break forever the strangle hold and destruction foisted on productive individuals by value-destroying mystics and neocheaters.

Normal State	Mind is clear. No interference patterns. Both short-term and long-range thinking processes are functioning.
Ordinary Orgasm	Some sexual distortion lines or patterns interfering with or partially blocking normal contents of the mind. All thinking processes shrink to the here-and-now moment of sexual pleasure.
Intense Orgasm	To visualize the image in the mind during intense orgasm, reverse the image for ordinary orgasm to white lines over a black background that is being squeezed out of existence by these white lines as they increase in number and intensity. The expanding white-line patterns (or white flashes) squeeze out and temporarily empty all contents from the conscious mind during intense orgasm. All thinking processes cease as the full capacity of the mind focuses only the feelings and pleasure of intense orgasm.

Some men and women, while able to experience physical orgasm, seldom if ever deeply enjoy sexual intercourse. This is a form of psychosexual impotence. Many men fail to experience a single psychologically satisfying orgasm throughout their lifetimes, even after experiencing thousands of ejaculations.

Sex education for children, adolescents and adults based on Neo-Tech Pleasures would provide the knowledge needed to develop psychuous pleasures and long-range happiness.

1. Healthy, effective sex education for children can be summarized as:

a. Your body is good and pleasurable...feel it and use it guiltlessly for your pleasures.

b. Masturbation is good and pleasurable...do it and enjoy it in comfortable privacy. In addition to the valuable sexual pleasures experienced, free and guiltless masturbation is also important for discovering sensuous body responses that yield the most pleasurable orgasms. Guiltless masturbation is the cornerstone of successful sex education and yields major life-long benefits, especially for females.

Masters and Johnson data indicates that women who did not learn to masturbate as girls or during adolescence seldom achieved orgasm during marriage.

2. Healthy and effective sex education for adolescents can be summarized as follows:

a. Same as above plus:

Masturbation is good and pleasurable...do it and enjoy it in comfortable privacy. Females should learn both manual and electric vibrator techniques for masturbation to increase their orgasmic capacity and pleasure.

Exclusive use of the electric vibrator, however, may eventually diminish sensitivity to clitoral orgasm in some women during sexual intercourse. But this point has not been established and may or may not be valid. In any case, most women would probably gain more sexual benefit by masturbating "excessively" with an electric vibrator than they would by not masturbating with an electric vibrator at all.

3. Healthy and effective sex education for adults can be summarized as follows:

a. Same as above plus:

Masturbation is good and pleasurable...do it and enjoy it in comfortable privacy or with your lover. Teach your lover how to masturbate you in the most pleasurable way, and vice versa.

c. Petting to climax and nonmarital sexual intercourse are guiltlessly good, beneficial, and pleasurable in any mutually serious romantic relationship. To achieve

Psychuous pleasures and long-range happiness, one must correctly judge the effects of an affair on one's self-esteem along with the mutual suitability of one's romantic partner.

Full benefits from a sexual affair can be gained only if the responsibilities that accompany sexual intercourse are met. Those responsibilities not only include disease prevention and appropriate birth control measures, but understanding one's partner and the psychological and self-esteem implications of the sexual affair.

d. In most cases extramarital, multipartner sexual affairs, or sexual affairs outside of one's primary sexual relationship are based on judgment errors or on neurotic motivations that damage one's self-esteem and are destructive to one's primary love relationship.

4. Healthy and effective sex education for elderly adults can be summarized as follows:

a. Same as above plus:

b. Place special emphasis on explicitly breaking deep-rooted, destructive religious and victorian taboos (both overt and subconscious) against masturbation and sexuality.

c. Value-oriented sexual activities and intercourse are good, beneficial, and pleasurable...do it and enjoy it whenever you can.

Neo-Tech Pleasures are easy to understand and are recommended not only for all adults, but also for adolescents. Its concepts provide clear, consistent, valid standards not only for pleasurable and beneficial sexual activities, but also for selecting future romantic partners. A literature search revealed that no books provide integrated and consistent information helpful to children and adolescents in orienting their lives toward achieving romantic love, psychuous pleasures, and long-range happiness through developing genuine self-esteem.

Most sex books written for young people are oriented overtly or subtly around either destructive, guilt-ridden altruism or around various self-diminishing positions of conformity, casual non-values, forbiddance, guilt, or sexual inhibition.

Next Page | Contents | Previous Page

Disclaimer - Copyright - Contact

Online: buildfreedom.org - terrorcrat.com - mind-trek.com