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Your Job, Psyche, Mind, Love-Life, and Body
Whatever happened to the power of love that once overwhelmed you and your
husband? Where did those wonderful celebrations go? As you know, they died in
this suppressed world. They will come back soon after the turn of the century.
Let us look ahead into tomorrow's spectacular love-life. Remember, you may use
those 21st-century techniques from the future to achieve phenomenal success
today.
What sparks love? It is not what you may think: Value reflection
sparks love. Think about it: What happens when a woman thinks about her dream
man? She thinks about a man who makes her proud. Every value she upholds as
important and admirable is reflected in her dream man. He symbolizes
her and her values in life. Indeed, in order to fall deeply in love,
she must see the values she upholds in life reflected in her dream man. True
love comes to a woman through value reflection.
Now, what sparks love in a man? Value reflection sparks love in him,
too. But realize, his value reflection is the mirror image of hers. You see,
a woman's attraction to him reflects his competence and ability to draw such a
wonderful woman. Her love and admiration for him reflects his success as a
man; her presence makes him feel spectacular. True love comes to a successful
man through value reflection.
Any woman trying these 21st-century techniques now can spark love in one of
today's successful supermen. Simply do today what women will do tomorrow: show
him you are attracted to him because of his accomplishments. He will love
being admired by a woman. Take a genuine, deep interest in each specific
accomplishment. Show pride in his success. Become his reward for his
competence and achievement, and you will spark his love.
Remember, in tomorrow's Neo-Tech World, after the job revolution around the
turn of the century, your husband, if you are married, will have a living job
and become one of those supermen. Let us look closer at the super love ahead:
As your husband transforms into your dream man, making your dream love come
true, you will discover ways to fuel his flame. As your husband becomes a
successful superman in tomorrow's living jobs, he will eventually bring values
to the world he could never even imagine now in his routine rut. With all that
value production, he will be a wonderful target for lots of value reflection or
love, for the more value production, the more potential for value reflection.
His value production will fuel his value reflection or flame of love. To help
fuel his flame, you will emotionally and often tangibly support his value
production. His brightly burning flame will always warm his supportive woman
who helps fuel it.
And his flame will never die. You see, happiness is the crucial ingredient for
the love affair to last forever. What is happiness? Where does it come from?
Again, the answer is not what you might think. To easily answer those
questions, let us make an observation: Observe people who take more from
society than they put in -- unproductive people, from destructive thieves to
prestigious politicians. If you get to know those people closely, you realize
they have no happiness and no potential for happiness. Next, observe people
who put more into society than they take -- productive people, from productive
housewives to wealthy self-made entrepreneurs. If you get to know those people
closely, you realize they have a base of happiness and a potential for
unlimited happiness.
The age-old riddle is solved: what is happiness? Happiness is putting value
into society, value production. Man is a social animal who lives
together in society. Putting value into that society gives him pride and
happiness. Building more and more values for society also builds more and more
pride and happiness for himself.
Thus, value production is his key to happiness. And growing happiness is
crucial for lasting romantic love. Today your husband is most likely trapped
in a specialized rut at work and cannot expand his value production or
happiness. Tomorrow, your superman will store up happiness through his living
job, however, and he will let that feeling flow out somewhere, with someone --
with love and passion for the woman for whom his flame burns. (Of course, that
woman will be the one who sparks and fuels his flame -- the woman who reflects
and supports and contributes to his accomplishments and goals.) His work will
be his way to build happiness, but you will be his way to feel all that
happiness.
The bottom line in every person's life is: happiness. You must be true
to what brings you greatest happiness in life. A lifelong, passionate
romantic-love relationship with a superman brings a woman her greatest
happiness in life. Down deep, all women want that. Tomorrow's Neo-Tech World
assures super love and fairy-tale happiness that we only dreamed about as
children.
Tomorrow you will love to make your husband, your superman, feel special. He
will come to you to feel life's greatest attraction: happiness. It matters not
what you do together. Like the first few weeks of falling in love, even
walking through a grocery store together will be wonderful. For, the
21st-century ordinary man will have a living job and will build values and
happiness; and when he is with his woman, no matter where they are or what they
are doing, he will celebrate his happiness with her. On his own, he may never
leave his living job just "to have something to do" or for the entertainment
itself. But he will take time from his living job to be with her.
Love is a feeling. Tomorrow your superman, your husband, will spend
time with you for that exciting feeling. Remember, your excited love for
him will reflect his competent soul as a successful man. He will cherish
you and the special feeling you bring to him.
Any woman using these 21st-century love techniques today can sweep one of the
rare supermen today off his feet. Leona Helmsley did it. So can you! For,
once a superman gets a taste of real romantic love, then he will let himself go
and rediscover the celebration. Romance will rise from the innermost depths of
his happy soul as he rediscovers the celebration...with you!
Set a goal for yourself to bring happiness into his life every day. Realize
that his effort into the relationship will be different than yours. You see, a
man in a living job drives forward much broader value production than his
woman.[ 18 ] After the job revolution when he gets a living job, he will
move forward with you a joint journey toward exciting goals. He will drive
aggressively on his work and build the base of happiness for both of you. His
effort will be for you, too.
Of course, we are describing your husband, if you are married, after the
job revolution. For, all ordinary men today will discover the excitement of
big-shot business success when America goes Neo-Tech. Then, when your superman
is with you, he will get the very most out of it. He will enthusiastically
look forward to the celebration -- to the affection and romance -- with you,
every day. He will discover a whole new dimension to life as the time
celebrated with you becomes a major event of happiness. With you, life will
become a luscious treat, an almost unbearable tease of pleasure. Anticipation
will tease him every day. Then, when he sees you, he will become a very
romantic partner as he pours on the love and affection. He will really feel
and celebrate his happiness with you. Unlike today when he passively receives
whatever love and affection comes his way, tomorrow your husband will really
pour it on!
In turn, you will really turn him on! You see, the mental emotion --
love -- is physically captured through affection. Indeed, the emotions
of love can be sent back and forth physically between two people through
affection; so physical affection captures and shares physically what the mind
feels emotionally. Now realize, as a woman, the importance of being physically
desirable by staying fit and trim. Not to worry, however, for soon you will
become as sexy or sexier than you have ever been at any age. (That
21st-century secret is revealed in section three of this chapter.) With such a
nice body, the physical affection will come easy. If the physical affection is
enhanced, then the feelings inside are enhanced.
Now, you will pour on the affection like the first few falling-in-love weeks
each and every day! No matter what you are doing together -- from
entertainment to grocery shopping -- you will be very affectionate. You see,
affection is the way you will feel your love for each other. And you
will really be in love. He will discover, with you, the celebration of
life. Both of you will look forward to that celebration, every single day.
As a woman in love, you will be alive and energetic. You will bring laughter
and excitement into your husband's life. You will make his time with you
wonderful. Remember, after the job revolution, he will be a deeply happy
person. He will feel all that happiness with you...during the
celebrations. Every time you spend time together will be a great celebration:
you will rejoice and celebrate your love, no matter what you do. You will
shower each other with affection -- sending your love back and forth. Your
sweet celebrations will happen whenever you are together, wherever you are,
whatever you are doing. Time together will be exciting, romantic, and
overflowing with affection...and sex. Now, let us talk about lovemaking:
A woman physically and psychologically "surrenders" her body and soul to her
lover. Her body and soul is "taken", dominated and penetrated by her man
during lovemaking. To feel passionately in love, she must look up to the man
she gives herself to and see in him everything she holds important. For, he
symbolizes the value of her own self. Every woman longs for a superman -- a
man with competence and strength. Every woman's longing will be fulfilled when
America and then the world goes Neo-Tech. Ordinary men everywhere will become
supermen of competence and success. Indeed, the coming job revolution will
bring today's ordinary men into that world of super competence and success.
Every woman will genuinely look up to and feel true love for her man.
Remember, everything she represents, all that she amounts to is symbolically
reflected in her man -- the man she allows to "take" her. She looks for
success and strength. To fall deeply in love, a woman must see great
values of strength, competence, accomplishment in her man. A man, by contrast,
must build those values. Tomorrow he will build those values.
Because of her biological nature a woman deeply gains more and more happiness
the more she can admire her man, his success and value production. Therefore,
in tomorrow's Neo-Tech World, she will often support her husband's value
production. The more she can do to help propel him forward in his career, the
more she will feel genuine pride, admiration and happiness. Indeed, supporting
both emotionally and tangibly her husband's success will be a source of
happiness for all women. Her contribution to his value production will be her
value production. You see, today in our suppressed society, men become
miserably stagnated in their careers and women become stifled in their
marriages. Tomorrow, the ordinary man will be happy with a career he can
admire; the ordinary woman will be happy with a man she can admire. Tomorrow
all will change as men become much more successful and women become more
supportive.[ 19 ]
As we transcend today's suppressed society and rise into tomorrow's Neo-Tech
World around the turn of the century, the ordinary woman's psyche will leave
behind certain debilitating 20th-century influences. For example, some women
readers reject the idea that a woman "surrenders" to a man during lovemaking;
reject it as something unequal. Whereas a man and a woman's similarities must
be recognized, so must their differences. Those differences make them unique
and special to each other. For example, a woman's emotional nature brings an
irreplaceable value to a man's life, a cherished dimension he could not
experience without her. A real woman brings out the man. And a real man
brings out the woman. Their private world exists for both to share and to
enjoy, which includes each other's differences and unique qualities as man and
woman. Great pleasures and mutual value exchanges come from being different,
from being woman...from being man. That private world is for each other only
and has no bearing on a woman's public world including her career and
interaction with other men outside her romantic-love relationship. She can go
just as far as any man in any career she chooses. But her lover must be
someone special -- someone she can look up to and admire...someone she can
"surrender" to.
Without acknowledging her biological and emotional nature, she misses the very
understanding of looking up to and admiring a man for her own happiness. Thus,
she forever misses her deepest happiness in life and loses the deepest pleasure
and joy of being a woman.
Your nature is to fall in love with a man you can look up to and admire. Do
not deny your nature. You need such a man -- a superman you can "surrender"
to. You would love to have such a man in order to discover intense happiness
and lifelong celebrations. Your chances at getting a superman (from within
your own spouse if you are married) are certain when America goes Neo-Tech.
Today, unfortunately, your odds can be diminished or destroyed if the wonderful
differences between man and woman get obscured. Tomorrow, fortunately, your
psyche will leave behind any such denial of your nature.
Tomorrow, your husband, the superman driven on value production, will fill
reservoirs of value reflection -- that is, reservoirs of love and happiness.
You will be the woman who taps his love and happiness. He will envelop
you with a special love and tenderness that takes you into a private world
untouched by anyone else. And the preciousness of your private world is
the foundation upon which all romantic love is built. In today's stagnant
world, the sweetness and tenderness dies with time. As our happiness wanes,
our love fades. Sometimes we look outside our marriages for those lost special
feelings. But in tomorrow's Neo-Tech World, all that will change. As your
husband builds his reservoirs happiness and love that you tap every day,
precious feelings for you grow and grow. He will never desire another. The
preciousness makes the relationship inseparable, even in the face of other
quality men and women. Because of the endless flow of happiness in tomorrow's
Neo-Tech World, you will truly celebrate your love, not for a few months, but
for years...decades. Throughout your one shinning moment of time within all
the infinity of time, you will be filled with happiness and love.
Today, falling in love does not last. But tomorrow when men engage in growing
value production through their living jobs, they will feel alive and romantic
for their entire lives.
When America goes Neo-Tech, the business structure will universally change, and
all men -- yes you -- will experience an exciting living job. Your
big-shot success will become your source of happiness. And love, your
transmission belt to feel all that happiness, will become a powerful
motivator.
With a flaming love affair with your spouse, you will really love life.
In short, life will become a ball, which will generate energy that boosts your
productivity and romance. You will love success!
You will fall deeply in love with your spouse -- the woman who brings that
dimension of happiness into your life. She will bring to you feelings you
never knew existed. With her, you will feel incredible during the
celebrations. By understanding the ingredients to happiness, you will realize
that time celebrating happiness with your woman is all part of injecting
yourself into life. With a living job, you will build a cornucopia of
happiness overflowing with pride. With your superwoman, you will experience
all that earned happiness.
Most men today lose their romantic selves because they have non-living jobs,
stuck in miserable stagnation. You see, a man needs to feel good to feel
romantic. Stuck in stagnation, most men just do not feel romantic. In the
end, for most couples, profound happiness is a forgotten love-struck moment of
the past.
After America goes Neo-Tech and you get a taste of a living job, you will feel
powerful and romantic. You will rediscover the thrill of living.
If you are trying these techniques now, before America goes Neo-Tech, then you
are already working toward taking over a living job. "Inject myself into
life!" quickly becomes your motto. The more values you create, the more
exhilarated you become. With your mini-day/power-thinking tools from Chapter
Five, you will eventually advance like a locomotive of value production. You
will discover power -- the power of making a difference and creating values for
mankind.
Once you get rolling, to stop your value production to spend time with your
woman may at first cause a conflict: How can I abandon my locomotive of value
production to "skip through the woods?" If you have a hard time relaxing with
your woman, and that is blocking the celebration...say you have a hard time
feeling your happiness and often end up anxious and disappointed, then you must
overcome your anxiousness in order to maximize your moral purpose for living:
happiness. You must see the inherent sadness of life, the shortness of your
time to experience everything you will ever know or feel in all eternity. By
seeing the sadness, you will see the supreme importance of happiness. You must
feel intense happiness during your brief time, for everything you will ever
feel happens during your brief years alive. The following story may open
your eyes to this phenomenon:
They stepped from the rock back to the land. They were overflowing with happy
energy. They sat on the ground for a moment as he showed her the ring and put
it on her finger. She held her hand toward the sky and admired the ring
sparkling in the sunset. He stood up then picked her up, lifted her off the
ground and turned in circles. As he turned her around, he saw the pink sky
over the lake, then the white full moon between the tall pine trees. The young
couple's whole life was before them. Their future together and a lifetime of
excitement and happiness was ahead. They had nothing to worry about and
everything to look forward to. Everything -- their careers, their marriage,
their children -- everything was before them. They were happy and carefree.
They celebrated until darkness fell over the lake.
As they stood there, all the beauty around them was the same...except this time
everything in life was not before them. Their careers, their marriage, their
children...that was now all behind them. This time, they were quiet and did
not celebrate. Life was too short. They felt so happy last time with all life
to experience in front of them. But now their lives were practically
over...over in a flash. All that happiness they felt last time for what was to
come had already come and gone. That happiness felt last time now turned to
sadness. For nearly all life was now behind them. And their love for each
other would in a few short years be lost to death.
The more they remembered, the more they felt sadness. They hugged, and then
they held each other for a long time. They knew these moments were precious,
for they would not have each other much longer. They watched the sunset and
remembered. Darkness fell over the lake.
He stepped off the rock and onto the land. He suddenly looked behind him, as
if to find his wife there with him after all. If only he could hold her one
more time! The pain of remembering the last time here when he held her hand
and told her he loved her now became unbearable. To momentarily escape the
pain from that memory, his thoughts jumped back to the time they once
celebrated life still before them, over fifty years ago. It seemed like just a
short time ago -- they laughed and cried and celebrated. He walked over to
where they had celebrated. He turned slowly in circles as he remembered
lifting her and turning her in circles in their celebration. As he turned, he
saw the sunset; he saw the moon between the pines. He stopped turning. He
remembered. He sat on the ground where they once sat as he slid the ring on
her finger. Suddenly the sweet celebration became crushed with the knowledge
that she was gone, forever. He looked at the sunset. He remembered the last
time when they watched this sunset together. ...She would never see another
sunset. Darkness fell over the lake.
He did not leave this time. He sat there in the dark. He remembered every
moment of when they shared this cove one last time together. He remembered how
precious those moments were. He kept on remembering. He remembered first his
most recent memories with his wife; then his memories traveled back over the
years. He relived in his mind every special moment with her throughout all the
years. Several hours later he had remembered all the special moments back to
the moment he stood up from the very spot where he now sat, lifted her and
turned her in circles as they celebrated a whole life still to come
together...their wonderful lives ahead, which he just spent the last several
hours remembering, moment by moment. Those special moments that he remembered
tonight were what they were celebrating for over fifty years ago...for a
wonderful lifetime in anticipation. Suddenly he began to cry loudly. "It's
all over!" he yelled into the darkness.
The sunrise caught the old man still paralyzed in his memories. He finally
stood up to leave. He was weary. His heart ached as he recalled that the last
time he stood up from this spot, he was overflowing with energy and happiness
as he lifted her and turned her around...and that the last time he stood here
was a few years ago when he told her how much he loved her. He looked at the
cove in the morning light. He looked for a long time. He looked at the pines,
at the land where they celebrated, at the lake, the sky...and then he looked at
the rock and listened as the water cradled it. Tears fell from his eyes. It
was hard to turn away. He knew he would never again see this place that had
meant so much to his life. ...He was saying good-bye, forever.
He struggled forward for two more painful years. He accomplished little, then
died. ...The water still cradles the rock in the cove. The sun sets over the
lake and the moon shines between the pine trees. But he will never see that
again.
When you go to the widest integration that you are living for happiness, then
you can see that celebrating happiness with your woman is an act of
injecting yourself into life. For, what is of supreme importance in your life?
Knowing super happiness. Indeed, the celebrations inject the man with a living
job into life as you feel the happiness you have earned.
Moreover, by celebrating happiness and love, you will eventually travel further
and faster in your freight train of value production. For, now your train is
always well fueled, and you conduct that train from the widest integration of
life. You will reach destinations that before were unreachable.
Once you try these techniques, life will become the antithesis of most people's
lives in which time hangs heavy on their hands and is boring. Indeed, your
living job will await you, full of creative projects that beckon you...tease
you...while you are with your woman. And your woman will await you, full of
love and affection that beckon you...tease you...while you are with your job.
You will feel good. Every day will be like a tycoon/romance story. Life will
become an indescribable treat, just as it will when America goes
Neo-Tech.
You will feel simply incredible and pour on the love and affection
during the time you are with your woman. With your living job, you have inside
a bottomless well of happiness and romance because you build your value
production and success. Your woman will live her life in disbelief at your
romantic power. Every day when you spend time with your woman should be a
celebration!
Most couples never know what they could have together. In tomorrow's world,
your time together every single day will be a wonderful celebration. All forms
of entertainment, sports, hobbies, vacations can then be used by you and your
woman not as external sources of happiness, but as ways to be together
in order to share your love and to experience your internal source of earned
happiness.
The average man today, without these techniques, falls into a
stagnant routine at work. He stagnates and does not build much happiness
inside himself to experience with his woman. When he falls in love, his
celebrations may last a few weeks, perhaps a few months. But he does not have
the source-flow of earned happiness inside himself, no ongoing value production
like he will enjoy in tomorrow's Neo-Tech World.
But those who pursue these techniques and acquire a living job to build values
for society, happiness for themselves, and celebrations with their spouses must
be aware of a threat to their celebrations: Surrounding the rare, deeply
happy person in today's suppressed society are subliminal influences
against being happy, for "how dare you indulge in large doses of happiness" the
world around you tells you. To overcome society's subliminal scolding, remind
yourself of the sadness -- the brief time we are here to experience everything
we will ever feel. Then, go for super guilt-free happiness. Let all your
happiness come out in your celebrations with your woman.
To get back those celebrations of the past is not easy at first, even with a
living job. The reason is: you do not emotionally feel the tragedy of those
lost celebrations. Influences all around us make those early celebrations
something that were bound to die. We simply accept that the celebrations
slowly ended...as was to be expected. Now, everything is back to "normal".
Is that what happened to you? Did the celebrations quietly die? You and your
wife probably never looked back or felt a tug in your heart for the precious
moments once felt between you. The celebrations simply got left behind, and
you will never have them again. You will, however, vividly remember them when
one of you is gone. Then, you will feel unforgiving sorrow that you spent your
lives together without the celebrations.
Have you forgotten how you felt so incredible...so special and loved? Have you
forgotten how she made you feel like the most important man in the world? Have
you forgotten how she made you feel like the greatest lover alive? Have you
forgotten how she gave you the most powerful feelings of pride you have ever
known? Have you forgotten what an exciting event it was every time she was
there? As you forgot, you probably did not feel the sad loss of those
incredibly exciting times and the incredible way she used to make you feel.
Saturated by the negative influences around you, you could not hold onto the
very purpose for living your short life -- super happiness during your
one brief moment in all eternity.
Did you feel fine losing the greatest feelings you have ever known? Did it
feel normal losing the greatest happiness you ever knew? Just what was lost?
The goal of life was lost. You must fill your brief moment in eternity with
intense happiness. But, your celebrations lasted only for a few weeks or
months. ...Your brief time in all eternity brought only a miniature moment of
intense happiness.
What a tragedy: to have left that exciting time in your life behind forever.
That exciting time of intense happiness quietly left your daily life, then
quietly left your memory. And negative influences all around you stopped you
from feeling the sad loss. ...You cannot bring yourself back to those
celebrations until you feel the sadness.
Life ends. And it ends so soon. You must grasp the sadness of life: when life
ends, all is gone. This sadness of life grants you the rightness of super
happiness. Get in touch with the sadness of life. Then you will be able to
reach back and feel the tragedy of lost celebrations with your wife. And only
then can you emotionally rediscover the celebration...rediscover it now
instead of when you look into her eyes one last time during the final
moments of life.
Once America goes Neo-Tech, however, you will regain your romantic self. Here
is why...
Consider that, when you first fell in love, going to a movie felt wonderful
regardless how the movie turned out. After a few months, however, if the movie
was not good, then the whole evening was uneventful. You now needed external
sources of entertainment to bring happiness and excitement into your life.
Overall, life became boring.
By contrast, after the job revolution you will never become bored and will
never be boring. The reason is: you will not need external sources of
entertainment to bring happiness and excitement into your life. Your work
will. You will spend time with your wife to experience that endless
flow of happiness. And since everyone will be like that, there will be
no negative influences around you tearing you down.
You will become very romantic. You will shower your woman with romance and
affection as you feel so happy and strong. Your woman will live in disbelief
at just how romantic life is with her superman.
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This does not mean women are less capable
than men. But when they pair up after the job revolution, women will seek men
who are more accomplished in business than themselves, as explained later in
this chapter.
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This does not mean women will not have
careers. But women, even career women, will seek the superman she can
look up to -- someone more accomplished than herself. And she will take great
pride in her superman's accomplishments and do all that she can to support him
and his success.
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Section One For Women
Soon after America goes Neo-Tech, nearly every woman will proudly show off her
man...yes, even worship him, for he will be a very successful and attractive
superman -- a real man. Ladies, have you ever looked at one of those
very successful and attractive men -- a real man -- and wondered how to
get one of those guys for yourself? Did you eventually shrug off the thought,
resigned to dying without ever experiencing a super romantic-love relationship
with a superman? When America goes Neo-Tech, your husband will transform into
one of those super-quality supermen. And in tomorrow's Neo-Tech World, he will
cherish you as if you were the only woman alive.
How
To Love A Superman
Section Two For Men
Most men today get their source of happiness externally from vacations,
sports, entertainment, partying. Suppressed in routine ruts, they have no
choice. A few lucky men, however, get their source of happiness internally
from their competitive creations and development of important values for others
and society. The first group of men sometimes seem to have more fun because
they orient their lives around high-visibility, one-shot segments of "fun".
But that is the very reason why most men today stagnate into increasing
boredom. Tomorrow they will thrive on their careers and value production, not
on time off per se. As they thrive on exciting value production in their
living jobs, they will never stagnate. Life will always be exciting. When
America goes Neo-Tech, around the upcoming turn of the century, all men will
have new jobs of the mind, their natural source of happiness. Never
stagnating in their living jobs, they will enjoy the most fun of all.
And with their spouses, they will experience something special beyond their
wildest imagination. They will share entire lifetimes of celebrations that
they previously experienced for only the first few weeks of falling in love.
Their ongoing value production in their living jobs will cause ongoing
happiness that fuels their lifelong celebrations. Now entertainment,
vacations, parties will become spectacular, for their super happiness will come
pouring out during the celebrations with their women.
How
To Love A Superwoman
Love Capture
A young man and woman in their 20s jumped onto a rock in a quiet cove. They
faced each other. The only sound was the gentle noise of the water cradling
the rock. The tall pine trees filled the mountain air with a sweet aroma. The
autumn evening was crisp; the sun was setting over the lake. The young man
knew the moment was right. He reached out and touched her hair then placed his
hands on her shoulders. He looked into her eyes and asked her to marry him.
She looked deep into his eyes as she said yes. Suddenly her eyes filled with
tears as she tilted her head slightly and began to cry and laugh. His eyes
filled with tears as they hugged and kissed. "Look at that!", she said as she
pointed to a majestic orange and pink sunset glowing over the lake.
The
Happiest Moment
Life Passes Quickly
The couple took the Neo-Tech path through life: They worked hard together,
producing and bringing major values to mankind. They loved their work, sharing
their goals, and they loved each other. Their happiness grew. Their love for
each other deepened. But as their happiness grew and their love deepened, life
passed by in a flash. They felt the unjust irony -- life for the Neo-Tech
person bringing major values to mankind passes quickly. Yet, for the stagnated
specialized worker, time is a burden. Time passes slowly. For the Neo-Tech
couple, time is a precious gift. Fifty years passed quickly.After Fifty Years
After fifty years, they went back to the same little cove on the mountain lake.
The moment was so special fifty years ago that the cove became a permanent
photograph in their minds. Now, everything looked the same. They stepped on
the rock. The only sound was the water cradling the rock. They smelled the
pine and felt the crisp autumn air as the sun set over the lake. They
remembered. At this moment he had asked her to marry him. They looked at each
other. Their eyes filled with tears of sadness as they reached out to hold
each other. She touched his face and turned it gently so he saw the fiery
sunset.The Sadness
They stood on the rock and looked at each other. They said nothing. They held
each other. Then they walked over to where they had celebrated and remembered
their carefree happiness. Without saying a word, she pulled off her ring and
handed it to him. They both looked at it, sparkling in the sunset as it did
fifty years ago. He slid it on her finger. Then he held her hand and told her
he loved her more than the day he first put that ring on her finger. His voice
shook as he told her. He looked up for a moment and saw the moon between the
pines as he did fifty years ago.Good-Bye Forever
A few years later, the man came back alone one evening. His wife had died.
For the first time, he stood alone on the rock. He was overcome by feelings.
Just yesterday, it seemed, his wife was here with him as they looked into each
other's eyes and held each other in reassurance. He could see her still
standing there in front of him. He reached out to touch her hair. She was not
there. He began to weep and to remember. He remembered when he put his hands
on her shoulders and asked her to marry him. He remembered her eyes and her
expression. He remembered how she tilted her head slightly as her eyes filled
with tears. ...Oh, he needed her now. He felt so empty as the water cradled
the rock.Happiness Killed
The old man tried to go on with his value production. But he and his wife had
always worked together. Going back to his desk, pulling out work that she had
worked on with him, reaching for goals that she had reached for with
him...caused great pain. Working toward those goals without her now tore his
heart. They both loved their work and their goals. But now the work and those
goals devastated him with hurt. He kept remembering her and how she had loved
their goals. When he walked into his home office, he became filled with the
pain of losing her. He could not work without her presence. He spent all day
working on something that before, with her, took him less than an hour. His
mind slipped back into memories of her all day long. He emotionally could not
achieve their goals without her. For, every forward movement toward those
goals made the loss of her more painful. * * *
You live for a brief moment in time, then are gone, vanished from eternity,
forever. Everything, all the wonderful values and heart-warming feelings,
vanish with death. That inherent sadness of life amplifies the moral purpose
of living: to achieve happiness. During your brief moment alive in all
eternity, you must experience intense happiness and as much as you
possibly can. You must accomplish this to get everything you can out of your
one shining moment of life.Chapter 8 Continues
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