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Your Job, Psyche, Mind, Love-Life, and Body

Chapter Eight

Your Unbeatable Love-Life And Body

Section One For Women
How To Love A Superman

Whatever happened to the power of love that once overwhelmed you and your husband? Where did those wonderful celebrations go? As you know, they died in this suppressed world. They will come back soon after the turn of the century. Let us look ahead into tomorrow's spectacular love-life. Remember, you may use those 21st-century techniques from the future to achieve phenomenal success today.

What sparks love? It is not what you may think: Value reflection sparks love. Think about it: What happens when a woman thinks about her dream man? She thinks about a man who makes her proud. Every value she upholds as important and admirable is reflected in her dream man. He symbolizes her and her values in life. Indeed, in order to fall deeply in love, she must see the values she upholds in life reflected in her dream man. True love comes to a woman through value reflection.

Now, what sparks love in a man? Value reflection sparks love in him, too. But realize, his value reflection is the mirror image of hers. You see, a woman's attraction to him reflects his competence and ability to draw such a wonderful woman. Her love and admiration for him reflects his success as a man; her presence makes him feel spectacular. True love comes to a successful man through value reflection.

Any woman trying these 21st-century techniques now can spark love in one of today's successful supermen. Simply do today what women will do tomorrow: show him you are attracted to him because of his accomplishments. He will love being admired by a woman. Take a genuine, deep interest in each specific accomplishment. Show pride in his success. Become his reward for his competence and achievement, and you will spark his love.

Remember, in tomorrow's Neo-Tech World, after the job revolution around the turn of the century, your husband, if you are married, will have a living job and become one of those supermen. Let us look closer at the super love ahead:

As your husband transforms into your dream man, making your dream love come true, you will discover ways to fuel his flame. As your husband becomes a successful superman in tomorrow's living jobs, he will eventually bring values to the world he could never even imagine now in his routine rut. With all that value production, he will be a wonderful target for lots of value reflection or love, for the more value production, the more potential for value reflection. His value production will fuel his value reflection or flame of love. To help fuel his flame, you will emotionally and often tangibly support his value production. His brightly burning flame will always warm his supportive woman who helps fuel it.

And his flame will never die. You see, happiness is the crucial ingredient for the love affair to last forever. What is happiness? Where does it come from? Again, the answer is not what you might think. To easily answer those questions, let us make an observation: Observe people who take more from society than they put in -- unproductive people, from destructive thieves to prestigious politicians. If you get to know those people closely, you realize they have no happiness and no potential for happiness. Next, observe people who put more into society than they take -- productive people, from productive housewives to wealthy self-made entrepreneurs. If you get to know those people closely, you realize they have a base of happiness and a potential for unlimited happiness.

The age-old riddle is solved: what is happiness? Happiness is putting value into society, value production. Man is a social animal who lives together in society. Putting value into that society gives him pride and happiness. Building more and more values for society also builds more and more pride and happiness for himself.

Thus, value production is his key to happiness. And growing happiness is crucial for lasting romantic love. Today your husband is most likely trapped in a specialized rut at work and cannot expand his value production or happiness. Tomorrow, your superman will store up happiness through his living job, however, and he will let that feeling flow out somewhere, with someone -- with love and passion for the woman for whom his flame burns. (Of course, that woman will be the one who sparks and fuels his flame -- the woman who reflects and supports and contributes to his accomplishments and goals.) His work will be his way to build happiness, but you will be his way to feel all that happiness.

The bottom line in every person's life is: happiness. You must be true to what brings you greatest happiness in life. A lifelong, passionate romantic-love relationship with a superman brings a woman her greatest happiness in life. Down deep, all women want that. Tomorrow's Neo-Tech World assures super love and fairy-tale happiness that we only dreamed about as children.

Tomorrow you will love to make your husband, your superman, feel special. He will come to you to feel life's greatest attraction: happiness. It matters not what you do together. Like the first few weeks of falling in love, even walking through a grocery store together will be wonderful. For, the 21st-century ordinary man will have a living job and will build values and happiness; and when he is with his woman, no matter where they are or what they are doing, he will celebrate his happiness with her. On his own, he may never leave his living job just "to have something to do" or for the entertainment itself. But he will take time from his living job to be with her.

Love is a feeling. Tomorrow your superman, your husband, will spend time with you for that exciting feeling. Remember, your excited love for him will reflect his competent soul as a successful man. He will cherish you and the special feeling you bring to him.

Any woman using these 21st-century love techniques today can sweep one of the rare supermen today off his feet. Leona Helmsley did it. So can you! For, once a superman gets a taste of real romantic love, then he will let himself go and rediscover the celebration. Romance will rise from the innermost depths of his happy soul as he rediscovers the celebration...with you!

Set a goal for yourself to bring happiness into his life every day. Realize that his effort into the relationship will be different than yours. You see, a man in a living job drives forward much broader value production than his woman.[ 18 ] After the job revolution when he gets a living job, he will move forward with you a joint journey toward exciting goals. He will drive aggressively on his work and build the base of happiness for both of you. His effort will be for you, too.

Of course, we are describing your husband, if you are married, after the job revolution. For, all ordinary men today will discover the excitement of big-shot business success when America goes Neo-Tech. Then, when your superman is with you, he will get the very most out of it. He will enthusiastically look forward to the celebration -- to the affection and romance -- with you, every day. He will discover a whole new dimension to life as the time celebrated with you becomes a major event of happiness. With you, life will become a luscious treat, an almost unbearable tease of pleasure. Anticipation will tease him every day. Then, when he sees you, he will become a very romantic partner as he pours on the love and affection. He will really feel and celebrate his happiness with you. Unlike today when he passively receives whatever love and affection comes his way, tomorrow your husband will really pour it on!

In turn, you will really turn him on! You see, the mental emotion -- love -- is physically captured through affection. Indeed, the emotions of love can be sent back and forth physically between two people through affection; so physical affection captures and shares physically what the mind feels emotionally. Now realize, as a woman, the importance of being physically desirable by staying fit and trim. Not to worry, however, for soon you will become as sexy or sexier than you have ever been at any age. (That 21st-century secret is revealed in section three of this chapter.) With such a nice body, the physical affection will come easy. If the physical affection is enhanced, then the feelings inside are enhanced.

Now, you will pour on the affection like the first few falling-in-love weeks each and every day! No matter what you are doing together -- from entertainment to grocery shopping -- you will be very affectionate. You see, affection is the way you will feel your love for each other. And you will really be in love. He will discover, with you, the celebration of life. Both of you will look forward to that celebration, every single day.

As a woman in love, you will be alive and energetic. You will bring laughter and excitement into your husband's life. You will make his time with you wonderful. Remember, after the job revolution, he will be a deeply happy person. He will feel all that happiness with you...during the celebrations. Every time you spend time together will be a great celebration: you will rejoice and celebrate your love, no matter what you do. You will shower each other with affection -- sending your love back and forth. Your sweet celebrations will happen whenever you are together, wherever you are, whatever you are doing. Time together will be exciting, romantic, and overflowing with affection...and sex. Now, let us talk about lovemaking:

A woman physically and psychologically "surrenders" her body and soul to her lover. Her body and soul is "taken", dominated and penetrated by her man during lovemaking. To feel passionately in love, she must look up to the man she gives herself to and see in him everything she holds important. For, he symbolizes the value of her own self. Every woman longs for a superman -- a man with competence and strength. Every woman's longing will be fulfilled when America and then the world goes Neo-Tech. Ordinary men everywhere will become supermen of competence and success. Indeed, the coming job revolution will bring today's ordinary men into that world of super competence and success. Every woman will genuinely look up to and feel true love for her man. Remember, everything she represents, all that she amounts to is symbolically reflected in her man -- the man she allows to "take" her. She looks for success and strength. To fall deeply in love, a woman must see great values of strength, competence, accomplishment in her man. A man, by contrast, must build those values. Tomorrow he will build those values.

Because of her biological nature a woman deeply gains more and more happiness the more she can admire her man, his success and value production. Therefore, in tomorrow's Neo-Tech World, she will often support her husband's value production. The more she can do to help propel him forward in his career, the more she will feel genuine pride, admiration and happiness. Indeed, supporting both emotionally and tangibly her husband's success will be a source of happiness for all women. Her contribution to his value production will be her value production. You see, today in our suppressed society, men become miserably stagnated in their careers and women become stifled in their marriages. Tomorrow, the ordinary man will be happy with a career he can admire; the ordinary woman will be happy with a man she can admire. Tomorrow all will change as men become much more successful and women become more supportive.[ 19 ]

As we transcend today's suppressed society and rise into tomorrow's Neo-Tech World around the turn of the century, the ordinary woman's psyche will leave behind certain debilitating 20th-century influences. For example, some women readers reject the idea that a woman "surrenders" to a man during lovemaking; reject it as something unequal. Whereas a man and a woman's similarities must be recognized, so must their differences. Those differences make them unique and special to each other. For example, a woman's emotional nature brings an irreplaceable value to a man's life, a cherished dimension he could not experience without her. A real woman brings out the man. And a real man brings out the woman. Their private world exists for both to share and to enjoy, which includes each other's differences and unique qualities as man and woman. Great pleasures and mutual value exchanges come from being different, from being woman...from being man. That private world is for each other only and has no bearing on a woman's public world including her career and interaction with other men outside her romantic-love relationship. She can go just as far as any man in any career she chooses. But her lover must be someone special -- someone she can look up to and admire...someone she can "surrender" to.

Without acknowledging her biological and emotional nature, she misses the very understanding of looking up to and admiring a man for her own happiness. Thus, she forever misses her deepest happiness in life and loses the deepest pleasure and joy of being a woman.

Your nature is to fall in love with a man you can look up to and admire. Do not deny your nature. You need such a man -- a superman you can "surrender" to. You would love to have such a man in order to discover intense happiness and lifelong celebrations. Your chances at getting a superman (from within your own spouse if you are married) are certain when America goes Neo-Tech. Today, unfortunately, your odds can be diminished or destroyed if the wonderful differences between man and woman get obscured. Tomorrow, fortunately, your psyche will leave behind any such denial of your nature.

Tomorrow, your husband, the superman driven on value production, will fill reservoirs of value reflection -- that is, reservoirs of love and happiness. You will be the woman who taps his love and happiness. He will envelop you with a special love and tenderness that takes you into a private world untouched by anyone else. And the preciousness of your private world is the foundation upon which all romantic love is built. In today's stagnant world, the sweetness and tenderness dies with time. As our happiness wanes, our love fades. Sometimes we look outside our marriages for those lost special feelings. But in tomorrow's Neo-Tech World, all that will change. As your husband builds his reservoirs happiness and love that you tap every day, precious feelings for you grow and grow. He will never desire another. The preciousness makes the relationship inseparable, even in the face of other quality men and women. Because of the endless flow of happiness in tomorrow's Neo-Tech World, you will truly celebrate your love, not for a few months, but for years...decades. Throughout your one shinning moment of time within all the infinity of time, you will be filled with happiness and love.

Section Two For Men
How To Love A Superwoman

Today, falling in love does not last. But tomorrow when men engage in growing value production through their living jobs, they will feel alive and romantic for their entire lives.

When America goes Neo-Tech, the business structure will universally change, and all men -- yes you -- will experience an exciting living job. Your big-shot success will become your source of happiness. And love, your transmission belt to feel all that happiness, will become a powerful motivator.

With a flaming love affair with your spouse, you will really love life. In short, life will become a ball, which will generate energy that boosts your productivity and romance. You will love success!

You will fall deeply in love with your spouse -- the woman who brings that dimension of happiness into your life. She will bring to you feelings you never knew existed. With her, you will feel incredible during the celebrations. By understanding the ingredients to happiness, you will realize that time celebrating happiness with your woman is all part of injecting yourself into life. With a living job, you will build a cornucopia of happiness overflowing with pride. With your superwoman, you will experience all that earned happiness.

Most men today lose their romantic selves because they have non-living jobs, stuck in miserable stagnation. You see, a man needs to feel good to feel romantic. Stuck in stagnation, most men just do not feel romantic. In the end, for most couples, profound happiness is a forgotten love-struck moment of the past.

After America goes Neo-Tech and you get a taste of a living job, you will feel powerful and romantic. You will rediscover the thrill of living.

If you are trying these techniques now, before America goes Neo-Tech, then you are already working toward taking over a living job. "Inject myself into life!" quickly becomes your motto. The more values you create, the more exhilarated you become. With your mini-day/power-thinking tools from Chapter Five, you will eventually advance like a locomotive of value production. You will discover power -- the power of making a difference and creating values for mankind.

Once you get rolling, to stop your value production to spend time with your woman may at first cause a conflict: How can I abandon my locomotive of value production to "skip through the woods?" If you have a hard time relaxing with your woman, and that is blocking the celebration...say you have a hard time feeling your happiness and often end up anxious and disappointed, then you must overcome your anxiousness in order to maximize your moral purpose for living: happiness. You must see the inherent sadness of life, the shortness of your time to experience everything you will ever know or feel in all eternity. By seeing the sadness, you will see the supreme importance of happiness. You must feel intense happiness during your brief time, for everything you will ever feel happens during your brief years alive. The following story may open your eyes to this phenomenon:

Love Capture
The Happiest Moment

They stepped from the rock back to the land. They were overflowing with happy energy. They sat on the ground for a moment as he showed her the ring and put it on her finger. She held her hand toward the sky and admired the ring sparkling in the sunset. He stood up then picked her up, lifted her off the ground and turned in circles. As he turned her around, he saw the pink sky over the lake, then the white full moon between the tall pine trees. The young couple's whole life was before them. Their future together and a lifetime of excitement and happiness was ahead. They had nothing to worry about and everything to look forward to. Everything -- their careers, their marriage, their children -- everything was before them. They were happy and carefree. They celebrated until darkness fell over the lake.

Life Passes Quickly

After Fifty Years

As they stood there, all the beauty around them was the same...except this time everything in life was not before them. Their careers, their marriage, their children...that was now all behind them. This time, they were quiet and did not celebrate. Life was too short. They felt so happy last time with all life to experience in front of them. But now their lives were practically over...over in a flash. All that happiness they felt last time for what was to come had already come and gone. That happiness felt last time now turned to sadness. For nearly all life was now behind them. And their love for each other would in a few short years be lost to death.

The Sadness

The more they remembered, the more they felt sadness. They hugged, and then they held each other for a long time. They knew these moments were precious, for they would not have each other much longer. They watched the sunset and remembered. Darkness fell over the lake.

Good-Bye Forever

He stepped off the rock and onto the land. He suddenly looked behind him, as if to find his wife there with him after all. If only he could hold her one more time! The pain of remembering the last time here when he held her hand and told her he loved her now became unbearable. To momentarily escape the pain from that memory, his thoughts jumped back to the time they once celebrated life still before them, over fifty years ago. It seemed like just a short time ago -- they laughed and cried and celebrated. He walked over to where they had celebrated. He turned slowly in circles as he remembered lifting her and turning her in circles in their celebration. As he turned, he saw the sunset; he saw the moon between the pines. He stopped turning. He remembered. He sat on the ground where they once sat as he slid the ring on her finger. Suddenly the sweet celebration became crushed with the knowledge that she was gone, forever. He looked at the sunset. He remembered the last time when they watched this sunset together. ...She would never see another sunset. Darkness fell over the lake.

He did not leave this time. He sat there in the dark. He remembered every moment of when they shared this cove one last time together. He remembered how precious those moments were. He kept on remembering. He remembered first his most recent memories with his wife; then his memories traveled back over the years. He relived in his mind every special moment with her throughout all the years. Several hours later he had remembered all the special moments back to the moment he stood up from the very spot where he now sat, lifted her and turned her in circles as they celebrated a whole life still to come together...their wonderful lives ahead, which he just spent the last several hours remembering, moment by moment. Those special moments that he remembered tonight were what they were celebrating for over fifty years ago...for a wonderful lifetime in anticipation. Suddenly he began to cry loudly. "It's all over!" he yelled into the darkness.

The sunrise caught the old man still paralyzed in his memories. He finally stood up to leave. He was weary. His heart ached as he recalled that the last time he stood up from this spot, he was overflowing with energy and happiness as he lifted her and turned her around...and that the last time he stood here was a few years ago when he told her how much he loved her. He looked at the cove in the morning light. He looked for a long time. He looked at the pines, at the land where they celebrated, at the lake, the sky...and then he looked at the rock and listened as the water cradled it. Tears fell from his eyes. It was hard to turn away. He knew he would never again see this place that had meant so much to his life. ...He was saying good-bye, forever.

Happiness Killed

He struggled forward for two more painful years. He accomplished little, then died. ...The water still cradles the rock in the cove. The sun sets over the lake and the moon shines between the pine trees. But he will never see that again.

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When you go to the widest integration that you are living for happiness, then you can see that celebrating happiness with your woman is an act of injecting yourself into life. For, what is of supreme importance in your life? Knowing super happiness. Indeed, the celebrations inject the man with a living job into life as you feel the happiness you have earned.

Moreover, by celebrating happiness and love, you will eventually travel further and faster in your freight train of value production. For, now your train is always well fueled, and you conduct that train from the widest integration of life. You will reach destinations that before were unreachable.

Once you try these techniques, life will become the antithesis of most people's lives in which time hangs heavy on their hands and is boring. Indeed, your living job will await you, full of creative projects that beckon you...tease you...while you are with your woman. And your woman will await you, full of love and affection that beckon you...tease you...while you are with your job. You will feel good. Every day will be like a tycoon/romance story. Life will become an indescribable treat, just as it will when America goes Neo-Tech.

You will feel simply incredible and pour on the love and affection during the time you are with your woman. With your living job, you have inside a bottomless well of happiness and romance because you build your value production and success. Your woman will live her life in disbelief at your romantic power. Every day when you spend time with your woman should be a celebration!

Most couples never know what they could have together. In tomorrow's world, your time together every single day will be a wonderful celebration. All forms of entertainment, sports, hobbies, vacations can then be used by you and your woman not as external sources of happiness, but as ways to be together in order to share your love and to experience your internal source of earned happiness.

The average man today, without these techniques, falls into a stagnant routine at work. He stagnates and does not build much happiness inside himself to experience with his woman. When he falls in love, his celebrations may last a few weeks, perhaps a few months. But he does not have the source-flow of earned happiness inside himself, no ongoing value production like he will enjoy in tomorrow's Neo-Tech World.

But those who pursue these techniques and acquire a living job to build values for society, happiness for themselves, and celebrations with their spouses must be aware of a threat to their celebrations: Surrounding the rare, deeply happy person in today's suppressed society are subliminal influences against being happy, for "how dare you indulge in large doses of happiness" the world around you tells you. To overcome society's subliminal scolding, remind yourself of the sadness -- the brief time we are here to experience everything we will ever feel. Then, go for super guilt-free happiness. Let all your happiness come out in your celebrations with your woman.

To get back those celebrations of the past is not easy at first, even with a living job. The reason is: you do not emotionally feel the tragedy of those lost celebrations. Influences all around us make those early celebrations something that were bound to die. We simply accept that the celebrations slowly ended...as was to be expected. Now, everything is back to "normal".

Is that what happened to you? Did the celebrations quietly die? You and your wife probably never looked back or felt a tug in your heart for the precious moments once felt between you. The celebrations simply got left behind, and you will never have them again. You will, however, vividly remember them when one of you is gone. Then, you will feel unforgiving sorrow that you spent your lives together without the celebrations.

Have you forgotten how you felt so incredible...so special and loved? Have you forgotten how she made you feel like the most important man in the world? Have you forgotten how she made you feel like the greatest lover alive? Have you forgotten how she gave you the most powerful feelings of pride you have ever known? Have you forgotten what an exciting event it was every time she was there? As you forgot, you probably did not feel the sad loss of those incredibly exciting times and the incredible way she used to make you feel. Saturated by the negative influences around you, you could not hold onto the very purpose for living your short life -- super happiness during your one brief moment in all eternity.

Did you feel fine losing the greatest feelings you have ever known? Did it feel normal losing the greatest happiness you ever knew? Just what was lost? The goal of life was lost. You must fill your brief moment in eternity with intense happiness. But, your celebrations lasted only for a few weeks or months. ...Your brief time in all eternity brought only a miniature moment of intense happiness.

What a tragedy: to have left that exciting time in your life behind forever. That exciting time of intense happiness quietly left your daily life, then quietly left your memory. And negative influences all around you stopped you from feeling the sad loss. ...You cannot bring yourself back to those celebrations until you feel the sadness.

Life ends. And it ends so soon. You must grasp the sadness of life: when life ends, all is gone. This sadness of life grants you the rightness of super happiness. Get in touch with the sadness of life. Then you will be able to reach back and feel the tragedy of lost celebrations with your wife. And only then can you emotionally rediscover the celebration...rediscover it now instead of when you look into her eyes one last time during the final moments of life.

Once America goes Neo-Tech, however, you will regain your romantic self. Here is why...

Consider that, when you first fell in love, going to a movie felt wonderful regardless how the movie turned out. After a few months, however, if the movie was not good, then the whole evening was uneventful. You now needed external sources of entertainment to bring happiness and excitement into your life. Overall, life became boring.

By contrast, after the job revolution you will never become bored and will never be boring. The reason is: you will not need external sources of entertainment to bring happiness and excitement into your life. Your work will. You will spend time with your wife to experience that endless flow of happiness. And since everyone will be like that, there will be no negative influences around you tearing you down.

You will become very romantic. You will shower your woman with romance and affection as you feel so happy and strong. Your woman will live in disbelief at just how romantic life is with her superman.

Chapter 8 Continues

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Footnotes for Chapter 8

[ 18 ] This does not mean women are less capable than men. But when they pair up after the job revolution, women will seek men who are more accomplished in business than themselves, as explained later in this chapter. [ Back to Text ]

[ 19 ] This does not mean women will not have careers. But women, even career women, will seek the superman she can look up to -- someone more accomplished than herself. And she will take great pride in her superman's accomplishments and do all that she can to support him and his success. [ Back to Text ]

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